pride.. not u? think back..

honestly.. i hate the fact that people taking pride in big spending wedding..

i maen.. if u want o show ur love o ur beloved wife.. then just show it to her.. y bother with the world?

ask urself this: y do i spend it here. WHAT DO I WANT FROM IT?
*of course u need to be honest answering that*

i did not wrote u cannot spend.. its ur money.. but y want to spend all on that one day? save some and buy a car or a house sounds much more realistic to me..

i dont mind if u want to spend if u have money..
but if u have to delay ur wedding just to save money.. that is just ridiculous..
just unthinkably unreasonable..

forgive the negative comment but that is just what i think..

lets think back: we want to live a happy life forever.. sounds familiar?
we all know money is important.. so y dont spend it on the happy life u wanted so bad?

all i can say is that y go such a great length to show off??
if u r bruce wayne that's a different story..

so i told myself.. i will try my best to eliminate every source of pride on my wedding day..

but another part of me suddenly asked: u hated pride so much, but wont eliminating the source of pride be the source of pride itself??

i cant answer that for the time being. the niat need to be rechecked to answer that..